I’m often asked why I chose to dedicate my career to full-time mediation and working with high-conflict couples. Some days, I might jokingly say, “I don’t know!”—because, yes, the work can be intense. But more often, the real answer is simple: it’s because of the transformation I get to witness after separation.
There is something powerful about seeing co-parents who once struggled to communicate find a way to rebuild a healthier dynamic. When they come back for check-ins and share how they are using the skills we’ve practiced together—listening, respecting boundaries, and putting their children first—it is incredibly rewarding. Many times, they even develop a better relationship with their ex-partner than they had at the beginning.
I especially love watching children thrive when their parents create a supportive environment. Families discover their “new normal,” and I get to see growth, resilience, and connection blossom. Of course, not every mediation ends this way—sometimes, families end up in court. But whether the journey is smooth or challenging, I want people to know that we are here to walk alongside them, to listen, and to provide the tools they need to navigate these difficult times.
For me, holding space for families is about supporting children, giving parents hope, and helping them build the foundation for love, stability, and presence. Mediation isn’t just about resolving conflict—it’s about creating opportunities for families to succeed in their next chapter. Here’s to a September full of growth, resilience, and connection.
—Katharine |